Made It Through Mum

We often tell children about the importance of honesty, kindness, and respect. But how much do they truly absorb from these verbal lessons? Research suggests that while talking about values is important, it's the consistent demonstration of these values through actions that truly shapes a child's moral compass. Children learn best by observing and imitating the behavior of their role models – primarily their parents and caregivers. This isn't to say that verbal instruction is irrelevant. Explaining the "why" behind actions helps children understand the context and significance of their observations. For example, simply witnessing an act of kindness is valuable, but explaining why that act was kind and its positive impact on others deepens the learning experience. The conversation provides a framework for understanding, enriching the impact of the observed behavior.  However, inconsistency between words and actions sends a confusing message. If a parent constantly ...

A firm cornerstone of Filipino society, the custom of taking formal family photos continues to evolve as technology continues to impact how we save memories. Even in this day of digital technology, when taking pictures with cellphones is commonplace, there is always a classic appeal to catching the spirit of family love and bonding in a formal studio environment. Although taking pictures with your smartphone is great for capturing casual moments, planning a family portrait is a unique experience. It's a chance to enter a setting where each element has been thoughtfully designed to withstand the test of time and preserve your relationships. The importance of family lies at the heart of Filipino society, and having well-taken photos and preserved memories is highly valued. A well-known brand in the photography world, Great Image, explores the reasons why professional family portraiture is still so important to Filipinos and the long-term advantages it offers. A way to honor family tr...

Mama, I'm bored!  Who isn't? Pandemic breeds boredom for many. As parents, we should think of ways and activities to keep boredom at bay. I will share with you some of the activities we did to keep ourselves (especially the kids) from being bored. These activities kept them entertained and taught them a thing or two.  Ways to cope up with boredom 1. Learn to do manicure/pedicure - this is part of my hygiene and I want to impart this to my kids. Aside from that, I love cleaning my nails. Btw,  Nailpolish used is hypoallergenic so it's safe for the kiddos. Ways to cope up with boredom 2. Let the kids make snacks -  we accomplished one of Lady's Choice #DoItTogether Co-creation activities ~ Egg Mayo Sandwich Relay Challenge. This is a fun Go Grow Glow sandwich-making activity for 2-4 members of the family that teaches values such as positivity and teamwork. 3. Play board games - imaginative play. Children receive creative stimulation by making their designs with bl...

Narito ang 4 tips para matulungan kang maghanda. Marami tayong pagsubok na hinarap nung nagsimula ang COVID-19 pandemic. Aminin nating napangunahan tayo ng takot dahil sa bagong virus at kung paano natin mapoprotektahan ang ating pamilya. Ganun kahalaga ang pamilya para sa ating mga Pinoy. Araw-araw pumapasok na sa isip natin: “Paano kung magkasakit ang anak ko o ang mga mahal ko sa buhay?” Sa sobrang pag-aalala natin sa kanila, minsan napapabayaan na rin natin ang sarili natin. Kaya naman araw-araw nating pinagdarasal na sana’y walang magkasakit sa ating pamilya dahil mas mahal ang magkasakit ngayon, lalo na kung wala tayong naitatagong pera para dito.  Nung nagkaroon naman ng surge o pagsipa muli ang mga COVID-19 cases at bumalik ang mahigpit na lockdown sa Metro Manila, bumalik nanaman ang takot. At dahil sa sunod-sunod na krisis, minsan ‘di na natin malaman kung paano tayo makakaahon mula dito.  Pero hindi ‘to dahilan para mawalan tayo ng pag-asa. Bilang isang magulang...

It is a fact that education is the best legacy parents can leave their children. This doesn’t only mean sending them to the best schools, enrolling them in workshops to hone their God-given talents, but also teaching them the necessary life skills to survive. We always remind our kids that they need to learn how to be innovative. Not in the sense of being smart like learned in school. The kind of savvy that will keep you one step ahead in real life. They have to become street smart, be resourceful, know how to put on the moves, learn how to play the game. The truth is we, their parents, won't be around forever. But while we are still here, we need to guide them, make sure they'll make it. How? Here are some learning tips that both parents and children can do together. Thinking abundantly.  Instead of saying you can’t afford something your child wants, sit together and discuss ways to earn the money needed to make the purchase. This creates a mindset of abundance -- instead ...

The country’s number one fast food chain Jollibee reminds us that amid all the fun activities and many obligations that the holidays bring, Christmas should always be about cherishing and spending time with the people who matter most. Due to the many preparations that need to be done and celebrations that need to be attended to, some people become so busy that they do not get to spend as much time with their families anymore. But even if it’s the most wonderful time of the year, nothing makes Christmas more meaningful and joyful than spending quality time with the family, even beyond the usual Misa Del Gallo and Noche Buena. Family bonding especially during the holiday season fosters a generally happier atmosphere, creates precious and lasting memories, and strengthens deep relationships. Jollibee delivers this message of love during the busiest season through a heartwarming TVC featuring its best-selling Chickenjoy. “This video is our call to all Filipino famili...

Here are the essential takeaways from Nestokid Grow Happy Nation event and lessons I imbibed from Ms. Rizason G.T. Ng, Psychologist of Ateneo Bulatao Center. To be able for your child to grow happy: 1. Validate - validate the uniqeness of each child. Because when we validate their uniqueness, we give them a sense of significance. It develops their sense of self and makes them feel that they matter and that they are important.  For example: Child: Mama, I hate my classmate, I hate my teacher. Tayong mga mommies sinasabi natin agad "Uy, mali yan . Don't say that masama yan. " Pero kasi when we say that, it makes the child feel and think " Ay, mali ba ako? Mali ba ang sinabi ko? Bad ba ako?  Instead, we should practice Reflective Listening . We ask them : Why are you angry? What did your classmate say? We accept what they are saying without judgement that what they did was bad or selfish. Allow children think their though...

Congratulations, Kuya RC!  And here I am again, lost for words kasi mauuna ang iyak. Kaya ko ito... (*drinks warm water* inhale-exhaaaaaale) whew! Game. After the mass. Si Mama, feeling matangkad 😂  📷 BFF Vincent ❤ 040318❤ First of all, THANK YOU . Thank you kay Lord kasi na-witness ko pa ang isa na namang milestone ng aking firstborn. Alam mo kung gaano ako ka-grateful kay God for my second life. Kahapon pa lang sa mass ng school nyo, napaiyak na ako, pinigilan ko lang kasi nahiya ako sa mga nanay na katabi ko. 😂  Ito lang naman ang lagi kong pinagp-pray ang makita ko pa kayong magkakapatid na makatapos ng pag-aaral tapos, okay na ako siguro dun. Pwede na kasi baka kalabisan na ang extension na hiningi ko. Thank you kasi kahit hindi tayo perfect family ginagawa mo ang lahat ng makakaya mo. Apektado ka sa lahat ng bagay pero nilalabanan mo. Dedma lang ✌ SORRY . sorry kung minsan tinitiis kita na hindi tulungan sa mga ginagawa mo kasi gusto ko matuto...

Parents have tendencies to be overly protective of their children. As much as possible we want to guard them in anything and everything that would possibly harm them. We want to make sure they are always healthy and safe. But when doing this we are actually hampering their freedom, and their potentials. A child's desire to explore out of arm's reach usually sparks a semblance of fear in parents, prompting them to become restrictive of their little one's day-to-day activities at times. The reality is parents cannot be with their kids 24/7. There are times when they simply need to be away from their children to fulfill other responsibilities, like going to work and attending to household chores. Just like last August 12, I need to go around the activity area during the Nido Advanced Protectus 3+, Love That Protects activity held at Atrium, SM Megamall to take pictures and videos of what's happening and let #PrincessY do her thing. She first went to Color Me...

It's your little one's special day, so there's no stopping Mom/Dad when it comes to planning the perfect birthday bash.  Kids wait all year to celebrate their big days, and with an amazing party theme, they're sure to have the best days ever. I've been attending friends' kid's party at Max's and their themes were all the same. I thought that was the only theme Max's offers. Recently Princess Y and I got invited to attend Chickie Boy's (Max's mascot) 5th birthday party held at Max's Scout Tuazon.  There, I learned that they have 5 themes to choose from ( Chickie Boy Party, Carnival, Outer Space, Super Racer, Princess Palace ) , and they can even customize the party you want for your child through their theme enhancers. Let me share with you the different party themes, party meals, premium party package and party options Here's a snippet of what happened during Chickie Boy's party ...